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| ==== Key to a great relationship and a happy marriage... ==== | ==== Key to a great relationship and a happy marriage... ==== | ||
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| + | __**TO END AN ARGUMENT, YOU AND YOUR PARTNER, STOP AND READ min2 SESIONS**__\\ | ||
| + | __**THEN DECIDE IF YOU STILL WANT TO HAVE THAT ARGUMENT**__ | ||
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| I BELIEVE THAT WE MUST GIVE 100% (our all) REGARDLESS OF WHAT WE GET BACK.\\ | I BELIEVE THAT WE MUST GIVE 100% (our all) REGARDLESS OF WHAT WE GET BACK.\\ | ||
| WE MUST TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING AND HAVE **NO** SECRETS.\\ | WE MUST TALK ABOUT EVERYTHING AND HAVE **NO** SECRETS.\\ | ||
| SECRETS BREED INSECURITIES AND INSECURITIES KILL RELATIONSHIPS.\\ | SECRETS BREED INSECURITIES AND INSECURITIES KILL RELATIONSHIPS.\\ | ||
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| - | //if one gets nothing back...//\\ | + | //**if one gets nothing back...**//\\ |
| //any relationship or marriage is like an investor,// | //any relationship or marriage is like an investor,// | ||
| //at some point they would like a return on their investment// | //at some point they would like a return on their investment// | ||
| //is it worth it to continue investing or is the investment dead?//\\ | //is it worth it to continue investing or is the investment dead?//\\ | ||
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| == by David Maree == | == by David Maree == | ||
| * **Communication: | * **Communication: | ||
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| * The best sex doesn’t happen at the beginning of a relationship. | * The best sex doesn’t happen at the beginning of a relationship. | ||
| * The first ±3 months are **lust**: all chemistry, instinct, imagination, | * The first ±3 months are **lust**: all chemistry, instinct, imagination, | ||
| - | * You're not connecting with the *real person* — you're connecting with the *idea* of them. | + | * You're not connecting with the **real person** — you're connecting with the *idea* of them. |
| * Don't meet or connect in a club or a bar. | * Don't meet or connect in a club or a bar. | ||
| * Your brain is wired for short-term rewards. | * Your brain is wired for short-term rewards. | ||
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| * Early sex feels explosive, like a match in a dry forest — fast, exciting, but fragile. | * Early sex feels explosive, like a match in a dry forest — fast, exciting, but fragile. | ||
| * Long-term intimacy, when nurtured, is like neutrinos moving through matter — silent, unstoppable, | * Long-term intimacy, when nurtured, is like neutrinos moving through matter — silent, unstoppable, | ||
| - | * You can’t rely on lust to build a connection — you must **build** something deeper through **presence** | + | * You can’t rely on lust to build a connection — you must **build** something deeper through **presence**, **trust**, **honour** and **respect**. |
| * Most couples never learn how to **build tension inside trust** — they drift into routine, parenting, stress, and lose polarity. | * Most couples never learn how to **build tension inside trust** — they drift into routine, parenting, stress, and lose polarity. | ||
| * When the spark fades, they either give up or chase someone new — mistaking lust for connection. | * When the spark fades, they either give up or chase someone new — mistaking lust for connection. | ||
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| === Imagine This === | === Imagine This === | ||
| What if just **10%** of that total wealth went toward global betterment annually? | What if just **10%** of that total wealth went toward global betterment annually? | ||
| - | * Solar infrastructure. | + | |
| - | * Environmental restoration. | + | * Environmental restoration. |
| - | * Public health and education upliftment. | + | * Public health and education upliftment. |
| - | The world would be transformed, | + | The world would be transformed, |
| + | But... that's not how it's going (yet). | ||
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| That’s real. That’s making a difference for the benefit of....\\ | That’s real. That’s making a difference for the benefit of....\\ | ||
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| + | THE MOST VALUABLE THING IN THE WORLD AND LIFE, IS... **TIME** | ||
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